Remember who you used to be before the world told you who you should be?
Like most little girls, I was fearless and never doubted that my dreams would come true. I was bold and unapologetic, and always had something to say. The workbench in my daddy’s garage became my stage as I regaled our neighbors with skits and stories. I even charged admission and donated all of it to a local hospital!
But somewhere in the life of every little girl, we begin to doubt ourselves and our dreams. After all, that was only make-believe and it’s time to grow up! For today’s young girls, the pressure to look and act older is greater than ever.
But for me, it wasn’t the media that forced me to grow up fast. When I was ten years old, my dad died. A widow with five kids, my mother spiraled into a deep depression and life as we knew it was over. Then six years later, the unthinkable happened—my mother died during open heart surgery. My last memory of her was of the two of us arguing the night before her surgery. I can’t even remember what we fought about, but I vividly recall muttering, “I hate you” under my breath as I stormed out of her hospital room. I had no idea that it would be the last time I would ever see her, nor that it would become the very thing that set me on a career path to help mothers and daughters strengthen their sacred connection. I know firsthand that the mother daughter relationship can dramatically affect the way a girl approaches life and can prepare her to either soar or struggle.
To say I understand teen girls and adolescent angst is an understatement. I know what it’s like to look for love in all the wrong places and to go through life wearing a mask, pretending to be someone I’m not so that no one would see my fear and insecurity. I consider it my soul’s purpose to guide and encourage young women to believe in themselves and to know that they are worthy and capable of making their dreams come true. I learned all my lessons the hard way so that you and your daughter won’t have to.
This website and blog is like my very own workbench and I still have lots to say—especially about empowering young women.